Its been ages since i blogged something....Got into creepy work and things....Last one week i saw some incident and thing which changed my prespective of the way i look things....
I was driving thru a thick traffic on monday and got into one big signal...A Lady with some 2 or 3 year old kid is begging by the side....When i saw her the kid in her hand leaped a bit and kissed that lady in her forehead...She closed her eyes and enjoyed the moment for a bit....She kissed her kid back...The traffic light turn green i drove towards my office...All this time the incident made me think...By all charitable disposition their standard of living is bad..But still the kid (Though at this age he or she didnt understand anything...) love the mother....Then i understood thats the reason why everyone of us in bounded to our family..Mother the promise made by god to be with you forever...May be the reason why many doesnt want to walk away from their family....
Another incident happened on Thursday as i came to know of a tragic death of my collegues father. He is a fantastic guy who keeps his morale high all the time..He is such a delight everyone wants him to be in their team...We decided to go to his hometown which is some 150km from chennai..All these days i know him as a guy who is technically sound and have a great knowledge about what he is doing...When i went to his place i was taken aback...Its a very remote village...From their he made it to a premier college in tamil nadu...All with the little resource he have...Till then i saw him as a good person..But my respect for him grown enormously after that night...Every new guy he used to help them settle down...he doesnt have a conceited feeling about himself...I understood still there are guys who give more than what its been offered to them..I just prayed to god that he get enough strength to come thru his family bereavement..
Third incident is about another person...He is just a complicated one in many people eyes..even his closest confidante wouldnt be able to judge this guy...Easiest thing you can say about him is "he is doesnt clear about what he wants in his life"...But i find time to look deep into him...His father and mother are from well off family...But his father lost all the money is business...He being at the stage of life where he started seeing things in his own perspective...He saw everything from how his mother struggles while her sisters are having fun in her mothers house...How is father is being treated by his own father...He thought he is not so blessed to have a great and happy childhood as his cousins...Problem of his age is he understand things better than his siblings....From a young caring boy who is calm...He converted himself into a aggressive and snappy one....Being like that (Angry young man) is the only way he is going to open the door thats been shut...He fought the battle with the heart eventhough he cried of his plight many times...Incourse of time as it would normally does he has become a recluse who just have to fight for his crumbs and his families....He concentrated on earning money like no one else in his age group did...All thruout this time he had only one thing in mind he has to restore her parents pride...Though his parents understand that their sons position in society is giving them what they have been denied. They forget to notice the man he would have changed into...He dont have a great opinion about love in marriage.. he felt that its more for the society than to themselves...Its not always been easy to have a life in which your parents complain about their marriage to you...When they say they would have better off with some one else or alone...He started felt the pain that he is a product of his parents unhappiness...Its a bitter pill to swallow for him..When they suggest he should get married he become skeptical...he dont want to have a family he is just a recluse as i said...So its hard for him again he put on the mask he famously did being belligerent ....Its normal for a guy who had this kind of childhood being skeptical about him being loved or he loves someone...I myself felt this guy is better of being alone...But life as it is has its own say...His parents said he has to get married since he loves them he cant walk away either...He feels that life should stop where it is now...He wants to be like this forever..But he himself know its not going to the case...Marriage is not always a pleasure cruise he knows that...But it shouldnt be a failure thats what his nightmare is...Because of all he went thru he dont want this nightmare to come true..For him it would be a bigger demon to exerice than what he experience till date...I prayed for this guy and as i always do i sympathise with him...Life is just a mystery it will be beautiful when it unfolds...Just i told one thing...Life is not always the party we expected but we should not forget to enjoy and thank god for giving it... Hope he experiment and excercise this cloud hanging over his head...
As a saying goes..."Life is a ship wreck but we shouldnt forget to sing in the life boat"
Signing off Niru...
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